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Plus Size Style Guide

How to Create Fail-Proof Chic, Casual Plus Size Outfits

we all need a chic and casual uniform Though I do LOVE dressing up in cottage core and Fall’s romantic trends – these days, I am in casual looks 99% of the time. I mostly work in my living room, and when I do go out, it’s for errands. I …

plus size christmas dress
WINTER

Just in Time for Black Friday! Plus Size Holiday Dresses for EVERY Budget

Break Out Your Plus Size Party Dresses If you’re anything like me, you have probably procrastinated until the very last minute for your holiday party/season looks. And sis, that’s ok; we got this. There are still plenty of really cute options out there for every budget and hello, Black Friday …

Plus Size Thanksgiving Outfit
AUTUMN

Slay Turkey Day! How to Pull Together the Perfect Thanksgiving Outfit

Slay the Living Room! The Perfect Thanksgiving Outfit It’s that time of year babes; we are in the home stretch of the year (and the decade!) and we’re rushing towards Christmas. Now, I am a huge fan of Christmas; I love all the music, the presents, time with family, etc. …

Plus Size Midi Skirt
ANeutralLook, AUTUMN, Plus Size Fall Fashion Trends, Plus Size Style Guide

Don’t Trash Your Plus Size Midi Skirt Yet!

Plus Size Midi Skirts Are STILL In   Hello lovelies! Fall is quickly turning into winter and I am scrambling to wear all of the cute stuff I bought at the top of the season. One trend that I refuse to let go of is a good plus size midi …

Plus Size Fall Fashion Trends
AUTUMN

#FatGirlFall: ALL The Plus Size Fall Fashion Trends to Try!

Plus Size Fall Fashion is in FULL Swing! AND on Your TV! Hey loves, guess what? I was on TV! Yes, me, (with some amazing friends). I was on “Great Day SA,” a morning show here in San Antonio, TX. The segment was all about the latest plus size fall …

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Transition Pieces: Taking Pieces from the Turn Up to the Boardroom.

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Body Neutrality/Positivity Advocate

Jess (fat, fashion, writing)
[Like, share, tag a mate who may need to hear this [Like, share, tag a mate who may need to hear this] ⠀ [TW: Mental Illness] Let’s talk about mental illness. No seriously, let’s talk about it. We expound so much energy talking about mental health: daily rituals, self care, feel good playlists. But how often do we talk about actual, diagnosed mental illness? ⠀ We don’t. And you know why? I can’t yoga away my ADHD. I can’t “self love” away my clinical depression. My anxiety doesn’t give a FUCK about candles and scents. Mental illness isn’t pretty and we still live with the stigma of mental illness. ⠀ Mental illness can be painful, often confusing and debilitating. So give yourself a fucking break. Give each other a break. And for the love of God, do NOT tell your mentally ill friends to try “a daily walk.” 😭😅🥴
“You hate the law, n!gga break it, I don't care, “You hate the law, n!gga break it, I don't care, and when ya get caught, remember that I don't care” ⠀ Bet you can’t tell me the name of the song that lyric comes from in the comments (there’s a hint in my geotag) 😜
💕SAVE THIS POST, and next time you’re dealing 💕SAVE THIS POST, and next time you’re dealing with rejection, refer back to it. It will help!!!💕 ⠀ Ok, let’s talk about how to deal with that raggedy b*tch rejection. ⠀ Rejection is inevitable. And that is doubly so if you’re pursuing your passion as a career. I know rejection very well; from pitching my clients in PR to pitching editors to trying to get my message out there on social media. For ME, rejection is a daily occurrence. So how do I deal with it? ⠀ Here are the 3 ways I deal with rejection: ⠀ 1. I know It’s NOT personal: I disconnect my personal feelings from the rejection. They didn’t reject ME. It could have been bad timing, lack of budget, not the right fit. It’s. Not. Personal. 2. I believe rejection is just a re-alignment for something better: Anytime I’ve ever been rejected, and kept going? Something better came along. 3. I ask for feedback: Our visceral response to rejection is to protect our ego and get mad. Girl, trust me, I’ve done it. But, now I ask for feedback. How can I learn from this? This has also helped me build relationships, as it continues the conversation. ⠀ Rejection f*cking sucks. I know. But it’s ok, because it’s not forever. Live with it. But don’t let it live in you, K? 😘
Social media can be a cruel, cut-throat, shitty pl Social media can be a cruel, cut-throat, shitty place with shitty people and their shitty opinions. But think about it like this: you putting yourself out there could be the spark someone else needs to grow to love themselves. And to me, that makes it worth it. ✨Follow for more confidence, self love and body positivity.
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